Hopefully, you found last week's first 5 wedding planning tips concerning 10 common wedding myths helpful. This week WhereBridesGo.com is debunking the other half of the list for you. 6. If you were a bridesmaid in her wedding, you must ask her to be one in yours. We totally understand the urge to reciprocate a friend's invitation if you were a bridesmaid in her wedding, but if it means having more bridesmaids than you planned to or leaving out another friend you feel closer to, know that you don't have to do it. The people that you choose to stand up at your wedding with you is a personal choice, and it should never be a forced decision out of obligation or guilt. 7. There has to be the same number of groomsmen as bridesmaids. Sure, this makes the photos look more symmetrical, but other than that, there's really no reason to match the number of bridesmaids and groomsmen. You should have your dearest friends or family up there because you want them...