Whether your wedding officiant is your life-long pastor or if you have to hire someone to perform your ceremony, there are 12 basic questions that you'll want to make sure you ask so your wedding ceremony goes off without a hitch! Is premarital counseling required? Many religious venues require a certain number of premarital counseling sessions with your officiant. Be sure you ask this question first and get them scheduled so you are sure you can complete all required session before your wedding date. How long is the basic wedding ceremony? This is important to know for several reasons. If you are adding personalization into your ceremony (readings, custom vows, or vocalists) this will add time to the length of the ceremony. If your ceremony venue is a popular one, it may be booked for another wedding after yours. You also need to let your reception venue know when they can expect your guests to arrive. Can a unity candle or unity sand be included as part of th